One family builds the wall, two families enjoy it

Similar sayings:

Enjoy yourself It’s later than you think Enjoy yourself It’s later than you think
The one who plants the tree is not the one who will enjoy its shade The one who plants the tree is not the one who will enjoy its shade
A dog in desperation will leap over a wall A dog in desperation will leap over a wall
Dogs do not dislike poor families Dogs do not dislike poor families
Do not tear down the east wall to repair the west Do not tear down the east wall to repair the west

Chinese sayings and proverbs