Those who have free seats at a play hiss first

Similar sayings:

The saving man becomes the free man The saving man becomes the free man
If you must play, decide on three things at the start If you must play, decide on three things at the start
If an enemy is annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy If an enemy is annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy
Parents who are afraid to put their foot down usually have children who step on their toes Parents who are afraid to put their foot down usually have children who step on their toes
The rose has thorns only for those who would gather it The rose has thorns only for those who would gather it

Chinese sayings and proverbs